Am I Dating A Nice Guy Narcissist Test (Quiz)

Last updated on May 14th, 2025 at 03:55 pm

Are you feeling increasingly drained in your relationship? Do you often wonder, “Why does he act so charming yet subtly hurt me?” If you’re questioning, “Am I dating a nice guy narcissist?” you’re not alone. Many people struggle to identify narcissistic traits in their partners, especially when they present as “nice guys.”

Research indicates that mild narcissism is prevalent in romantic relationships, often masked by superficial kindness. A study by the American Psychological Association found that individuals with narcissistic tendencies may exhibit behaviors such as emotional manipulation, keep you feeling guilty and lack of empathy in relationships.

However, these traits are not always obvious from the start. A nice guy narcissist might initially seem caring and attentive but gradually reveal subtle signs of narcissism, leaving you feeling confused and emotionally exhausted. Have you noticed him frequently shifting blame onto you, dismissing your feelings, or displaying inconsistent behavior?

In this article, I’ll share actionable insights based on real-life cases to help you recognize the hidden patterns of a nice guy narcissist. Drawing on my years of experience working with clients in similar situations, I’ve observed that nice guy narcissists often use a “Trojan horse” strategy—initially appearing genuine to gain your trust before gradually exposing their true selves.