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Am I A Narcissist Enabler Test (Quiz)

Assess if you’re unknowingly enabling narcissistic behavior in your partner with this insightful quiz.

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Last updated on May 14th, 2025 at 04:01 pm

Research shows that in relationships involving narcissistic individuals, the role of narcissistic enablers is often overlooked. A narcissistic enabler refers to someone who unconsciously supports or tolerates the narcissistic behavior of others, even enabling their harmful actions.

Hailey Shafir’s article in Choosing Therapy on “Narcissistic Enablers: How to Recognize & Deal With One” notes that narcissistic enablers may display traits such as a strong desire to please others and an inability to set boundaries. She points out that enablers often focus on maintaining harmony in relationships and may struggle to confront the narcissist’s problematic behavior.

If you’re wondering, “Am I a narcissist enabler?” or “How can I recognize if I’m enabling a narcissist?” you’re not alone. Many people find themselves in such situations, questioning whether their actions inadvertently support harmful behaviors.

It will explore the common traits and patterns of narcissistic enablers, allowing you to gain deeper insights into your behaviors and relationships. Narcissistic enablers often struggle with self-doubt and guilt, wondering if they’re overly accommodating or if their tolerance has crossed boundaries.

Am I A Narcissist Enabler Test (Quiz)

Am I A Narcissist Enabler Test (Quiz)

1. When someone points out harmful behavior from a person with narcissistic traits in your life, how do you typically respond as a potential narcissist enabler?

2. How often do you find yourself making excuses for a person with narcissistic traits in your relationships?

3. Which statement best describes how you handle your boundaries with someone who exhibits narcissist enabler tendencies?

4. When witnessing the dynamic between a person with narcissistic traits and their victim, what is your most likely response?

5. How do you respond when your potential enabling behaviors are pointed out by a therapist or friend?

6. In social settings, how do you typically handle situations where someone displays narcissistic traits by minimizing others’ experiences?

7. How would you rate your awareness of the psychological tactics used in narcissistic relationships, such as gaslighting and triangulation?

8. When a person with narcissistic traits criticizes or mistreats another person, which narcissist enabler response most closely matches yours?

9. How do you handle your own emotional needs in relation to the person with narcissistic traits in your relationships?

10. Which statement best reflects your understanding of your potential role in perpetuating harmful dynamics in relationships with narcissistic individuals?

Please answer all questions.

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Am I A Narcissist Enabler Test (Quiz) by Som Dutt From Embrace Inner Chaos

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