Is My Family Member A Covert Narcissist Test (Quiz)

Last updated on May 14th, 2025 at 04:05 pm

Have you ever felt confused by a family member’s behavior, wondering if their subtle put-downs or emotional manipulation might indicate something deeper?

Many people struggle with recognizing the hidden signs of this personality type, as covert narcissists don’t wear their traits on their sleeves like their overt counterparts. They often appear humble or self-deprecating on the surface, masking their need for control and admiration behind a facade of reasonableness.

But beneath this exterior lies a complex pattern of behavior that can leave you feeling drained and questioning your reality. In this article, I’ll share the specific traits and red flags I’ve observed in my work with families affected by covert narcissism, helping you distinguish between occasional difficult behavior and a genuine pattern of narcissistic tendencies.