Hoovering is one of the most cunning tactics narcissists use, and it’s as subtle as it is dangerous. Imagine you’ve escaped a toxic relationship, only to find your abuser trying to pull you back in—like a vacuum, sucking you back into their web of control.
This manipulative behavior, known as hoovering, often plays on your vulnerabilities, using fake apologies, grand gestures, or even threats to lure you back. But why does a narcissist do this, and how
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