Have you ever questioned whether your friend’s selfishness is just a personality quirk… or something more alarming? The confusion is real. One moment they charm everyone in the room, the next they manipulate situations to keep attention on themselves. If you’re here, you’ve likely noticed inconsistencies that leave you second-guessing your instincts.
Narcissistic traits in friends don’t always announce themselves with grandiosity. They often hide in subtle patterns: dismissive comments disguised as jokes, refusal to apologize, or a habit of twisting conversations to avoid accountability.
We’re taught to overlook these red flags to “keep the peace,” missing warning signs until relationships become emotionally draining.
Your friend's score of ${score} indicates a low likelihood of narcissistic traits. While they may occasionally exhibit some mildly concerning behaviors (e.g., moments of self-focus, slight defensiveness), these do not appear to form a consistent narcissistic pattern. They likely:
Are generally supportive, though perhaps not always perfectly empathetic.
Can admit fault, even if sometimes reluctantly.
Mostly respect boundaries, with perhaps minor occasional lapses.
Overall, the behaviors described suggest a generally healthy friendship dynamic. Like anyone, they may have areas for growth in communication or self-awareness, but significant narcissistic traits are not strongly indicated.
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With a low likelihood score, focus on maintaining a healthy dynamic:
Address any specific concerns calmly and directly if they arise.
Continue to foster mutual understanding and respect in your interactions.
Encourage open dialogue about feelings and needs within the friendship.
Be mindful of your own needs and continue to uphold your boundaries.
Your friend's score of ${score} suggests moderate concern. They exhibit several behaviors that could align with narcissistic tendencies, but perhaps not consistently or severely enough for a clear indication. You might observe:
Instances of minimizing your achievements or frequently shifting focus to themselves.
Difficulty admitting fault or a tendency to become defensive or blame others.
Testing or occasionally disrespecting boundaries.
Conversations that often lean towards being dominated by them.
It's important to observe these patterns more closely. While not definitive, these behaviors can create an imbalance or strain in the friendship and may warrant careful consideration of its health.
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A moderate score warrants careful attention to the friendship dynamics:
Clearly define and assert your personal boundaries. Notice how they respond.
Practice assertive communication regarding your needs and feelings.
Prioritize your self-care and emotional well-being; notice how the friendship impacts you.
Observe if concerning patterns worsen or become more frequent.
Consider if the give-and-take in the friendship feels balanced over time.
Your friend's score of ${score} indicates a high likelihood of significant narcissistic traits. Your answers suggest a pattern of behaviors that are strongly indicative of narcissism, such as:
Frequent lack of empathy and a tendency to devalue or compete with your successes.
Consistent deflection of blame and refusal to take responsibility.
Regular violation of boundaries and manipulative reactions to maintain control.
Condescending treatment of others or an air of superiority.
Conversations dominated by them with little genuine interest in your experiences.
These patterns can be very draining and damaging to your well-being and the health of the friendship. It's crucial to recognize these signs and consider their impact on you.
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A high score indicates potentially serious issues in the friendship. Prioritize your well-being:
Educate yourself on narcissistic traits and how they manifest in friendships.
Set very firm boundaries and be prepared for resistance or manipulation. Reduce your emotional investment.
Build a strong support system outside of this friendship.
Limit sharing personal vulnerabilities if they might be used against you.
Seriously evaluate the long-term health and viability of this friendship for you. It's okay to distance yourself if needed.
Your friend's score of ${score} indicates a very high likelihood of pervasive narcissistic traits. The behaviors described are severe and form a strong pattern consistent with how narcissism can manifest in friendships, including:
Pronounced lack of empathy, strong sense of entitlement, and potentially exploitative tendencies.
Clear patterns of manipulation, control, and possibly emotional abuse (e.g., gaslighting, devaluation, triangulation).
Significant disregard for your feelings, needs, and boundaries.
The friendship may feel consistently one-sided, draining, and emotionally unsafe.
This situation is serious and can have profound negative effects on your mental and emotional health. It is important to prioritize your well-being.
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A very high score suggests a potentially toxic friendship dynamic. Your safety and well-being are paramount:
Seek support from trusted friends, family, or a therapist specializing in toxic relationships or narcissistic abuse.
Develop a strategy for disengagement or ending the friendship if it's harming you. You are not obligated to maintain a damaging relationship.
Limit contact and do not try to reason with or change their core behavior. Focus on protecting yourself.
Understand that you are not responsible for their behavior or for "fixing" them.
Focus on your healing and cultivate relationships that are reciprocal and supportive.
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